





A friend of mine recently wrote me and asked me to write a blog about my ever changing hair. If you look at all the pictures I am sure you can understand why. the pictures above are just a sample of the hairstyles I have had in the past 5-6 years there are about 10 more variations of color and style but that would lock up the blog. Most of the time I get comments like "I love your hair, but I could never pull that off" or "I could never wear that style" I think hair is like clothing you just have to OWN it. Don't wear something you aren't comfortable in because it will show in how you act, I think it's the same for hair.
First, it is not an obsession. I agree with the proverb "Variety is the spice of life" without it life would get boring and dull. I am the type of person who gets bored with anything that is the same for too long. for example DH drinks Pepsi, all day every day, Pepsi. Pepsi, Pepsi. I can't do that. I get bored. I will drink all kinds of soda, I don't necessarily have a favorite I enjoy variety. When we go to a restaurant he orders the same meal every time, he says he knows what he likes and why mess with it and risk getting something he won't enjoy. I on the other hand try something new most of the time, or rotate a few favorites. I may have a meal I like but if I don't try the other dishes I may be missing a meal I LOVE.
OK, now back to my hair. I live in a small town in Oklahoma. I am not from here, I merely live here now. Everyone here has the same hair to some degree. The typical straight, parted, Britney or Lindsay hairdo. Older women here have the same set curled style. I like being different and do not want to look like everyone else. I know that is important in high school but it's just as important to me NOT to fit in the mold.
If I have an itch I scratch it, and for me a lot of times my itch is my hair. It is the easiest thing to change, weight takes a lot of time and effort, style or clothes takes quite a bit of money, and I love my man and family I would never change that. So I change my hair. It's that simple and that complicated.